tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7013295.post8099003722610694594..comments2024-02-06T15:57:57.350+05:30Comments on Aa..ha! [Thinking Inside The Blog!]: The Relationship DilemmaNimmyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11227810353203036224noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7013295.post-21794720326438426692011-03-21T08:59:51.597+05:302011-03-21T08:59:51.597+05:30Mike, Yes....that's an important point! "...Mike, Yes....that's an important point! "What works for me may not work for another". I completely agree which is why I think introspection and personal experiences are so important! :-)Nimmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11227810353203036224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7013295.post-22808107828898843742011-03-20T17:20:13.957+05:302011-03-20T17:20:13.957+05:30First, I must apologize to Heidi to my insenitivit...First, I must apologize to Heidi to my insenitivity to her problem. We all share similar problems in our human communities and I wish you the best in your future.<br /><br />Second, to answer Nimmy, as long as we live in human community we must handle these irritations in whatever way we can. I suppose balance helps, but we all have our weak moments. What works for me may not work for another.<br /><br />Take care to both,<br />MikeStranger in a Strange Landhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11727412468418974848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7013295.post-37800426583091684172011-03-19T20:20:02.201+05:302011-03-19T20:20:02.201+05:30Mike, can we ever come out of it fully? :\ having ...Mike, can we ever come out of it fully? :\ having said that I do know a few people who manage to use silence as a weapon - without letting the ego show up as anger, fear, hatred etcNimmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11227810353203036224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7013295.post-77327767486885575682011-03-19T20:15:58.184+05:302011-03-19T20:15:58.184+05:30Heidi, sorry, it looks like I forgot to respond to...Heidi, sorry, it looks like I forgot to respond to your comment earlier. I think I can somewhat understand your story. I think there is a lot of joy in a life that has it's share of solitude and perhaps just a few genuine friends. Here's wishing you the best in your relationships. The day we learn to enjoy giving and expecting nothing in return, we're perhaps safe from disappointments. :)Nimmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11227810353203036224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7013295.post-39716605075824619792011-03-19T18:05:41.156+05:302011-03-19T18:05:41.156+05:30Life is so hard when limited to the confines of th...Life is so hard when limited to the confines of the human ego.....<br /><br />Kind regards,<br />MikeStranger in a Strange Landhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11727412468418974848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7013295.post-57203440105120675642011-03-06T21:52:30.531+05:302011-03-06T21:52:30.531+05:30As a recovering alcoholic, I am pretty sure I'...As a recovering alcoholic, I am pretty sure I'm not the only one struggling for daily sanity. I have 'unfriended' or been 'unfriended' by so many people that I'm down to a few so-so friends that I care about and a few 'love to death' friends that are better than family and the others, I've gradually let go. Without being so splintered, I'm trying to be a really good friend to those left.Heidihttp://www.goodlifenoalcohol.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com